For Men: Unique Gifts for the Woman in Your Life

Between the economy and the commercialization of the holiday season, it can be a challenge to find unique and original gifts. And when it comes to the woman in your life, the challenges are compounded. Twittermoms has a great Holiday Gift Guide (that’s even tweetable over Twitter) and other mainstream sites have special deals, but for those men looking for an original gift this season, perhaps something romantic can be considered:

Write her a love letter
Just because you’re in a committed relationship doesn’t mean romance should die. Write something to make her remember why you two fell in love, and rekindle the love you have for each other. When writing a love letter, be sure to write it in longhand. Believe me; I’m not being picky. Typing it and printing it out is  not even slightly similar to actually writing a letter to the woman you love.
 

Give her a full body massage
Nothing screams seduction and sensuality like a full body massage. TAKE YOUR TIME. Soft music, candlelight, and rose petals are the modus operandi. And be sure to warm the oil in your hand first, paying attention to areas that you might not “normally” pay attention to during romantic times: hands, feet, arms, calves. 
 

Have a carpet picnic
Winter doesn’t lend itself very readily to outdoor dining, but a bottle of wine, great cheese, fruit and a fireplace might beat Jack Frost. Hot chocolate and s’mores can also lend a romantic hand.
 

Create something unique and crafty
Throughout the 18+ years of being together, my wife and I have shared many holidays, birthdays, and special occasions… many celebrated with gifts: bracelets, necklaces, clothes, trips, negligees, earrings,  etc. What does she remember most? What is looked upon as the unrivaled “gift  of gifts”? For the holidays, I went to a crafts store, and bought an unusual  jar—a bit squatty, with a unique lid—and I hand-painted it. I then spent two-and-a-half weeks writing my thoughts—by hand, on little slips of paper—1,000  reasons why I love her. Each one began with “I love you because…” and was  followed by one reason I love her. That jar sits on our mantle, and she regards it as the best gift she has ever received.

The holidays are commercial enough. Make this one something unique.

You also might want to check out:

1. The Shelf-Life of Romance A recent study shows that the romantic part of marriage—for the average couple—is a mere two years, six months. Given that the 50% of all couples divorce before their 5th anniversary* (with 82% of them citing “irreconcilable differences” as the reason for separation), I suppose it’s not a surprise…...
2. For Men: Preparing for Valentine’s Day Valentine’s Day provides a day to show your love and admiration for your significant other. And whether it’s a steady, long-term relationship or new love, there’s never a better time to show your love. And while standard gifts are fine—candy, flowers, jewelry—some men move unto unique, uncharted territory to profess their...

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