Comments on: Cheating is a CHOICE…

By: Singletude

Singletude — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 17:21:14 +0000

Cheating is a selfish, cowardly way to handle a failing relationship, whether the cheater is a man or a woman. It's the act of someone who wants to have his/her cake and eat it, too, at the expense of his/her mate. Cheaters want to have what they want, whether that's better or more frequent sex, sexual variety, an ego boost, romance, or whatever, while retaining the comfort and security of a primary relationship. It's such a huge offense not only because a commitment has been broken but because it deprives the faithful partner of the right to make an informed choice about whether or not to continue in a relationship in which there is now a third party. Bottom line: If you're no longer happy in a relationship, either work it out or get out. It's the ultimate in betrayal, selfishness, and cowardice to soak up all the benefits of a relationship while shirking all the responsibilities.

By: Michael Kleder

Michael Kleder — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 09:31:04 +0000

Tina all I wanna say is having a calm mind and clear head is very important in conversations and confrontation. Letting your emotions run high can have disastrous effects. Always keep yourself in check so you can make the right decisions and respond accordingly. According to me a cheating is cheating, no matter if there is a need of sex or there is a feeling of love.

By: Cheaters are the Worst

Cheaters are the Worst — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 20:48:05 +0000

:O So mUch Info :O

By: Stephanie

Stephanie — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 00:31:14 +0000

Reading this article along with the viewing the whole website here reaffirms why I avoid men like the plague. One relationship back in my 20s that dealt with him cheating and giving verbal abuse made me realize life is too short to put up with males who want to spread their seed with anyone. I know that if I were in a relationship or marriage I would never cheat, never have and never will. Never in heat and am not addicted to sex just for the heck of it. People we are supposed to be above the animals for God sake.

By: Steve

Steve — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 04:39:09 +0000

Welmer, Mack, say what you want, but this guy still makes a very valid point.

By: moi alone

moi alone — Sun, 25 Oct 2009 23:44:44 +0000

hmmm, well, I like the list of reasons a woman cheats. I also believe I was unable to get out of my relationship prior to my infidelity, which translated into the simple fact I lacked the skills/respect to maturely discuss my unhappiness with –whomever, mostly a lawyer, a very grown-up professional capacity I never hired before or since my eventual divorce -which I DID finally pursue myself. I'd also like to think (from the list of reasons a woman cheats) I DID try to discuss all these concerns with my then-husband, but we didnt have an "amicable" divorce. In other words, he wasnt going to HELP me get out of our relationship (I cant understand what value there is in keeping a wife who isnt happy, but I proved myself, afterall. My "lover" as my ex-husband calls him to this day (more than a decade later) didnt help me either in ANY tangible way. I simply .. got the strength.

By: Welmer

Welmer — Mon, 19 Oct 2009 13:18:13 +0000

Of course he's pandering, Mack. Notice the swine imagery?

Chuck, I think the pimp schtick is wearing out a bit. Not sure it's going to pay off for you like it does for Dr. Phil, but feel free to keep trying — maybe you can make a living selling books to gender studies departments.

By: Tessa

Tessa — Mon, 19 Oct 2009 13:18:08 +0000

I never understood guy's need to cheat to boost their ego. I mean, come on, how on earth does the number of women they can bed prove their manhood? To me, such a guy is has an emotional issue. I don't believe in a 'cheating gene' either. You cheat only because you wanted to. Period.

By: charlesjorlando

charlesjorlando — Mon, 19 Oct 2009 07:26:09 +0000

@Mack No… you've missed the point. As far as blame: cheating (regardless if the cheater is a man or a woman) is the CHEATER'S fault. Too many men blame other things… and too many women blame "the other woman".

What I was discussing here is the motivations for cheating in the first place.

By: Mack

Mack — Sat, 17 Oct 2009 04:31:37 +0000

Is it just me or are you trying to say that when a woman cheats it is the man's fault and when the man cheats it is the man's fault. Pander much?

Is this serious? Are there tards out there with no enough IQ's to fall for this.