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Charles discusses the implication of the Ashley Madison hack with CNN anchor Brooke Baldwin
AshleyMadison.com—the "Life is short. Have an affair." website—was hacked, with the hackers claiming that the data from all 37 million members will be leaked online unless Ashley Madison agrees to shut down their services. Charles went undercover as a "cheating husband", and knows first-hand what information is at risk. Watch the video... then read his article on YourTango »
Why do people cheat and who's cashing in on the multi-billion dollar infidelity industry? Host Tomi Lahren sits down with Charles J. Orlando to discuss his undercover investigation on Ashley Madison to find out why women cheat.
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Lying, cheating, financial infidelity. The million-dollar question: After this kind of break-up, why do exes come back, or get in contact after some time has passed?
To create a successful relationship that truly lasts, here are the 12 things that are required...
When it comes to past relationships, there is a harsh reality: You can't "go back", as the past cannot be changed. Going back meaning only one thing: Repeating past situations and mistakes. When you revisit an old flame, you can only start a new relationship. Here's how to evaluate it...
Women who get played by men aren't "dumb" or "inexperienced". Smart women get played all the time… and not because the guy is bright or smooth... but because his bullsh*t story has enough tangible possibility for it to be believable. Moreover, these "guy players" aren't useless men... they watch and wait — predators of a sort — and fill a specific need that a woman is looking for. And not just any need…
1,000 men and women surveyed... two things became clear: 1) Women cheat just as much as men (dispelling the myth that men cheat more); and 2) The reasons the genders cheat are very different.
The tell-tale signs to determine if he's the right man for you...
"I sent him a text last Sunday (the morning after) because I'm getting confused. He was silent all week and then finally answered me (text attached) the next Friday morning with an excuse of 'Sorry, I've been busy,' and a promise that we would talk that night. Same date. No discussion. Great sex. No clarity from him. What's the deal? Am I just being used? Because I feel like it."
I look around at the typical man today and I can’t help but feel disappointment. When did “Oooo! Damn! That ass!” become an accepted way to show a woman you’re interested in her? I’ll tell you when. It happened when Gentlemen died and the Bros were left in charge.
If you're unhappy and/or frustrated in your relationship, you want things to change. You want to make things better. You want to understand why they treat you badly, why they cheated, why they left, why they don't make time for you, why they don't value you, why you are miserable in your relationship, and you really want to understand why the hell you put up with it. Here's the deal, and I'm going to give it to you straight.
Want to keep your relationship great? Here's how...
Daily advice on life and love from relationship expert and bestselling author Charles J. Orlando. More at charlesjorlando.com
Men try to figure it out, but many don't get it. Does she want candles lit for romantic lighting, or candle wax dripped on her nipples? Does she want to be made love to softly with feeling, or f*cked from behind with mad passion? I asked 1,000 women what they really wanted from men in the bedroom. They got real. The got raw. And they got honest.
They lost a child four years ago and two of their three kids have health problems. I feel selfish, self centred and horrible but I miss him and love him so much. Please help me find direction out of this misery.
To the young women on Instagram: You might be beautiful. You might be built. You might love your body and have the confidence to show it proudly... and that's great. Seriously... I'm happy for you (no sarcasm). In today's fast-food, overindulged, carbohydrate-addicted world, maintaining a hot figure is challenging... so you get full marks for your efforts and workout regimen. But let's get real for a minute or two, shall we?
"I called him out on his behavior, and told me he loved me and that he did those things to protect himself, as his first wife and last girlfriend both cheated on him. He begged for a second chance. Do I forgive him?"
Ashley Madison, the marrieds-looking-for-affairs website, had more in store for me than I thought. I'm either really brave... or really stupid. You decide.
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