Men look back often and wonder: What have I accomplished in my life? What is my legacy? Will I be remembered in some way? Is this what I want? Am I happy? Is the grass greener somewhere else? This self-evaluation leads to wondering if they are living life to their fullest.

How she can help: Talk to him about it … without judgement. What are his short- and long-term aspirations? What does he want for himself, and what does he need from her to make it happen?